You get to decide who you become next
Hi beautiful!
A powerful exercise that helped me move forward after my divorce, was DECIDING to REINVENT myself.
For the longest time after my ex-husband told me he no longer loved me, I tried to understand what I had done wrong and how I had let myself fail.
One day, I received an intuitive message - “Vera, you need to become someone new. It’s time to re-invent yourself.”
I sat down and wrote out all the qualities, characteristics, and personality traits I wanted to embody as I moved forward in my life. The top one was: to be a woman that is optimistic, positive, and takes ownership and responsibility for everything in her life.
Being radically honest about what I wanted and how I wanted to show up in the world AND taking full accountability for every decision that had brought me to this point, was a gamechanger for me.
I finally felt empowered, connected to my inner wisdom, and ready to let go of the past, and embrace the future.
I did this same exercise when I left my corporate career to start my business. I wrote how I wanted to show up in my business, with my clients, and in my life.
And recently, I redid this exercise again.
Life is a constant evolution and I know that I am ready for my next up-level. Ready to leap into the next level of growth, both in my business, and in my life.
A powerful realization I had after a conversation with my coach, is that I am ready to stop fucking around, stop thinking small, and stop waiting for something to magically change. Not only don’t I want to, I quite frankly don’t have the time.
Old me would have wanted to get another certification. Plan a new program. Redo my website. Wait until I had “proof’ that I can do more. Wait until I “felt ready”.
The truth is, I am ready NOW. I have what it takes NOW. I can decide to reinvent myself NOW. I can show up as the best version of me NOW.
I know I’m ready because I am consistently seeing my clients achieve income growth by becoming the leader their business requires.
“Sometimes you need someone in your corner who will hold up the mirror and not let you look away. That's what working with my coach Vera has been for me. She doesn't let you play small and she doesn't let you self-sabotage in silence. She helps you move.” ~Vanessa
If you’re thinking “Hell yes!I am so freaking ready to become a woman who can do more, hold more, and expand into a new version of myself”, book a call and let’s get going!
This weekend, I invite you to really think about:
What do you REALLY want in your life?
Why are you holding yourself back?
Who do you need to be in order to move towards your desire?
Take out your journal and write out the qualities, characteristics, and personality traits you want to embody as you move into your next level.
You’re ready now and you are worth it!
Love, Vera 💛
